I was on the phone to a close friend of mine yesterday and we were talking about gay marriage. We were rejoicing in the vote that has just been passed (hopefully soon to be law), allowing same sex couples to marry here in Australia. My friend remarked that I should specialise in gay weddings, and something in that didn’t sit well with me.

Why should I specialise in gay weddings? Hasn’t the LGBT community fought so hard to be treated equally? Why should my service to same sex couples differ from the service I provide hetero couples? Eac...